It is unlikely that victims of homophobia take pleasure in being victimized. Homophobic acts and speech are realities that we must not ignore (any longer). Our objective is precisely to denounce past and present violent acts in order to avert, or at least to limit, future ones. The problem is not homosexuality, it is homophobia : we must therefore focus our efforts on the root of the problem.
Whether we like it or not, we are all children of homophobia. However, the fight that we wage against homophobia, and starting first in ourselves, makes us stronger than it. Far from weakening us through victimization, promoting social awareness of homophobia helps us to become more autonomous individuals. This is why asserting a LGBT political agenda cannot be made without deconstructing the prevailing homophobic logic which made this agenda, until now, impossible, and which makes it from now on, imperative.